helping single women find & keep love.
Because I’ve been the girl who made all the mistakes so that you don’t have to……
……..the girl who felt completely lost in relationships but who then went on a mission to learn everything that she could, to find out about men, relationships, commitment so that I could stop making the same old tired mistakes.
And on that mission, I found the answers to my inner healing and found the love of my life, who is my husband now.
And I discovered what the number one reason was for me not attracting and keeping love in my life….
And I want to share all those answers & secrets with you
Have you ever wondered why other women would float naturally and so effortlessly into relationships with great guys and you didn’t?
My Personal Story
If you have heard of me, you might know what determination means.
I have always been a sensitive, intuitive, big-hearted person. When I was growing up, this was taken advantage of.
In 2003, the Iraq war has started and changed my whole life. I cannot even describe what my life looked like during the war. As little girl, I used to go to bed not knowing if I will wake up the next day. I still remember it like yesterday, when the streets were filled with screams, gun shooting, and blood. I have never thought I would survive.
We had to run and escape to Jordan. Although, we were in a safe place, we all lived in one small room and we were not allowed to attend school due to being Iraqi citizens. We were treated unfairly to the point where our neighbours used to throw their trash over our tiny room and we experienced both mental and emotional abuse daily. We could barely eat and my childhood was completely destroyed. I never thought that humans could treat other humans this way.
After a few difficult years in Jordan, we were granted a humanitarian visa and moved to Australia. Moving to a new country was like a dream come true to me. However, reality has kicked in when I started High School. From grade 3 straight to grade 9, to learning a new language, to trying to adopt and find friends. Everything was just exhausting and I just wanted to quit. I still remember how I used to feel embarrassed to tell my story to others and I would just lie about my background to just fit in within the society. I have suffered from depression and PTSD. I was bullied at school and had zero education. I have failed all my subjects at school.
As I grow older, I felt a sense of hopelessness and loneliness. I came to think of relationships as something to fear and avoid due to past toxic relationships and my lived experience. I never thought I was loved or valued. I was unable to fully trust anyone and I always thought less about myself. I had a lack of confidence and I didn’t think I deserved to be loved.
After years of shutting off my heart and protecting myself from the world, things started to get worse for me. My mum was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. I was externally depressed and my World stopped. However, one night whilst I was g alone, I had a moment of hope. That moment was based on a reflection of my whole life. I thought to myself that I have survived war, poverty, bullying and I have failed a lot, but yet I am still alive. At this point I have decided that enough was enough. I was going to reclaim all of the parts of myself that I had abandoned, and become fully myself once more. Reclaiming my life back was not easy; I had to work hard to reclaim my life. I started attending counselling and I set myself gaols to achieve daily.
I believe everything is possible and even the word impossible itself means “I’m possible”. Never give up.
My hope is that my thoughts and insights help you to know that you are not alone. That you are not broken. That there is nothing unloveable about you. At all. I want to help you work on your relationships and emotion regulation. I care as much as I do about others because life has not been particularly easy on me.. I have been depressed, had panic attacks, and suffered from anxiety.
I have walked the path, and I know, deep in my bones, that healing is possible.
I have used my life experiences, along with my clinical skills to help my clients. I’ve helped clients fix their relationships with their partners. I have helped clients go from single to married. From depressed to thriving. From stuck in old limiting beliefs to expanding into their full potential and have high self-esteem.
At the end of the day, I hope to be a conduit of inspiration, healing, and love. And if I can help to encourage you along in your journey, then I feel absolutely honoured by that.
Never thought I could feel this good about myself!
- Lisa Michelson
I found my Authentic Self through Samar
Samar’s Coaching helped me build a Positive Mindset about myself and about relationships. A year after starting samar’s work and practicing her tools along side her Incredible support, I met my now husband and we are happily married! YAYYYY!!!
Thank You Samar for all the Positivity and Joy you have helped bring into my life."
- Mina Adams
Samar Has inspired me
- Emily Bryant ... Executive Manager
Best Vision of Yourself
- Elizabeth Stevens - university student
Gained my self-confidence Back
- Rachel Smith - Supervisor at Close
Healing from inside
- Suzan R - Teacher